I’m not sure if you know, but I’m kinda obsessed with coaching.
It’s what I know. It’s powerful. It’s impactful, and it’s changed my life.
Did you know that NOW is THE best time in history to share your unique gifts and message with the world?
The world could use an awesome change agent or visionary leader like you.
And I believe that women of color are the world’s best kept secret for change on this planet RIGHT NOW!
But I get it, you can’t quite pull together that special blend of purpose, passion and expertise that you’re dying to get into the hands of those who are literally looking for it RIGHT NOW.
See, I like to compare having a transformational coaching business to being in a relationship.
We often get into relationships with the false notion that somehow they’ll make us whole.
And we often get into business with a similar false notion. That somehow they’ll make us free.
And that once we get the clients and the money and the love we can finally be happy.
We think that’s the end game and all will be well.
But just as in any relationship we often show up to our businesses with old baggage in-tact and we don’t even know it.
The new glow of love in this exciting adventure quickly fades and the honeymoon is over just as quickly as it began.
All the things we thought were so wonderful about this relationship (business) is eroded by our projections, judgments and old stories.
We bring our old fears, old stories, hurts, wounds and insecurities and we think that if we’ll learn some special marketing techniques or read a few inspirational books we’ll know exactly what to do to turn things around.
And we’re as willing as ever to take action to do what it takes… Except when we’re not…
You still find yourself worried about:
Being visible, asking for the sale, charging fees you deserve, talking about what you do, talking about money, being rejected, what others do/will think, making mistakes, failing “again,” being overwhelmed, looking stupid, not knowing enough, having enough experience, being seen as a fraud…
Even fear of your own thoughts
Our conscious minds don’t make it easy for us to succeed.
With the programming we’ve picked up since we were young it’s easy for our minds to worry and fret about “how” to get the results we want in our lives and businesses.
As much as you want to succeed, your well-intentioned “keep you safe” monkey mind has you with one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake at the same time.
Ever been there in a relationship? You think, “why can’t I make this work?!“
But, people need your help, right? Correction… They don’t NEED your help, but it sure would be fun/great/life-changing to have it…
And something has called you to be the change agent/game changer/leader you’re meant to be.
You know the value of coaching, and you’re passionate, trained and ready-to-go, except for one thing… PAYING CLIENTS to serve!
Imagine what it would be like to be able to sell $1000, $3000 and up packages (of your transformation) with more ease and enjoyment…
What would get to happen for you in your business if you could see it like this?
A sweet delicious relationship, where you show up feeling valuable, being valued and confidently giving value, and where your Soul Clients are magnetically attracted to you and ready to step up and do great work with you!
Not only would you feel appreciated for what you do, your income would appreciate too, right?
Sure you may come up against your insecurities and doubts like most do in relationships when you wonder if the relationship (business) is going to work out or not, or whether things are too good to be true.
But there is a cure for what’s ailin’ ya!
And you’ve come to the right place because the Business Love Doctor is In.
Hi I’m JeeJee Saafir, M.A., In-spirational Leadership & Transformational Coach, Transpersonal Psychologist, and Marketing and Mindset Heartset Mentor (oh, and the Fun Police… issuing warrants if you aren’t having any!)
And I created this safe space just for you. Get to know me here.
Here’s to the best relationship you’ve ever had with your business! xoxo JeeJee