About “the JeeJ” (That’s Me!)

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Hey there, I’m JeeJee Saafir, founder of Profitable Displays of Affection (TM)

And I know you wanna know “about” me…

But, I’mma keep it real.

Even though my mission, vision and goals are valuable for me, truth be told, it’s not something YOU really care about (if you’re honest with yourself).

You likely could give a fart less.

You don’t really give a crap what my credentials are or what trainings I’ve taken, and blah, blah, blah… (Even though I’ll tell you about them here…)

Maybe in the recesses of your mind you care because achievement and accolades are what society has programmed you to believe is really important. 

And sure they count for something, I know…

But the truth is, you really only care about one thing…

Yourself!

AND

How I can help YOU!

And I’m totally ok with that.

I know you care about enjoying work YOU love, helping people with YOUR gifts, making good money to support YOUR ideal lifestyle, being more YOU in your work and having more fun and fulfillment in YOUR life.

You wanna be on purpose…

And your desires are natural and it’s your birthright to see them to fruition.

You wouldn’t have these desires if something within you wasn’t calling you to them.

Sure I can tell my story, it’ll probably sound familiar to you… You know the one… about all the fear, the hiding out, not being myself, being wet behind the ears, afraid to make mistakes, not feeling good enough, thinking I didn’t know enough, afraid of what others would think or say, confusion about what to do…

Now, I’m not everyone’s cup of tea…

I cuss a little, talk about woo-woo *ish, love talking about cheeky topics, and ending people’s sentences with “That’s What She Said…”

I like innuendo, puns and the like.

Oh, and I’m the Fun Police issuing warrants if you aren’t having any!

However, I am serious about taking a stand for you to stop discounting yourself, beating up on yourself, telling the same old tired ass stories about your life and business, and living in that emotional muck you think you’re stuck with.

I like practical how-to steps too… Simple structures & systems are your friend…

Cause I’ve been the failed coach, killing her health (literally eating away at myself – as in I thought I was literally dying, no joke) to make my business work… and I had to find the sweet spot between the meditation & the marketing (so to speak) and ground it to actually make it work for me. 

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Here’s some stuff about me you think you care about…

I have a masters degree in Transpersonal Psychology.

I know you’re like “what the hell is that?” (that means the study of the WHOLE person, body, mind and spirit).

I am trained as a spiritual coach & a transformational coach. As if there is some difference… I don’t know, but yes I paid to get trained in both of those things.

I’ve also invested in some high profile biz coaches in my time.

I’ve been a blogger and writer for years.

And I’ve worked in Sales for over 10 years.

That includes, direct sales (selling sex toys and giving presentations), distributor sales (selling parts to companies, cold calling, doing outside and inside sales), fitness training/coaching sales, the entertainment industry (actors, models & artists – marketing sales) and yes… “selling” my own coaching. 

At the end of the day, it’s all about relationships.

The one you’ve built with yourself, and the one you build with others.

And as cliche as it seems, it is all about love… 

That’s what Profitable Displays of Affection is all about… 

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You deserve to have a life and business you love and I’m here to be your loving guide and kick-ass coach. 

At ProfitableDisplaysofAffection.com I’m passionate about helping brilliant, bad-ass transformational coaches, mentors and experts grow themselves and their businesses, come out of the closet and really be who the hell they are, work with clients they love, make more money and create a lifestyle that allows them more freedom to play!

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Who I love to work with:

My Soul Client is a kick-ass sophisticated learner and achiever, who doesn’t take life too seriously and can laugh at herself and have a little fun along the way.

She understands that her business requires inner and outer steps to be profitable and fulfilling. And she knows the value of investing in herself and is ready for a faster path to her next level of growth.

-She is seriously committed to her biz success and wants to work less and make more

-She values self care, and her spiritual life is just as important as her biz

-She has a strong level of training in her expertise

-She wants to command at least $2k and up for each client

-She is decisive, has a history of taking action and above all has a high level of energetic and personal responsibility

-She is willing to be coachable and accountable

-She doesn’t wince over words like energy, vibration, frequency, Source, or other seemingly “woo-woo” words

-She is emotionally stable

-She likes practical steps and is willing to create systems to make her life and biz easier

-She has income coming in through a job or clients, and has financial resources to invest in her business

And she is not a stick in the mud, whining, complaining, blamer, shamer or Judy Judgkins…

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10 Little Known Facts about “the JeeJ”

  • Ya’ can’t see it in most of my pictures but I’ve got freckles on my face, hands, legs, arms and even my… well you get the point…
  • Even over 41 years old I still love teddy bears
  • In undergrad my favorite course was Sexuality. Took it twice just cause!
  • I am a dance junkie. No exaggeration. Ask my friends and family. It’s one of the biggest passions and natural talents I’ve been blessed with. Studied ballet, modern dance, jazz, and tap. Love salsa, ballroom, steppin,’ hustlin,’ and droppin’ it like it’s hott! I also teach from time to time…
  • I have a twin brother who is one minute older than me
  • I love to sing in the shower (And I actually sound pretty decent)
  • I have a brilliant song writing son in college. We have a relationship I adore. Luv that kid…
  • I love funny jokes and embarrassing stories. It’s fun to laugh at “crap” that didn’t seem funny at the time!
  • I love comedies, spiritual teachings by Abraham Hicks & a few other great teachersyoga, strength training, walking and staying in shape
  • I can say the alphabet backwards in 5 seconds (bet me if you dare!)

But enough about me, let’s talk about you… <<<