When talking to clients I hear two overarching complaints almost all the time. Two complaints of which are almost 100% never true. Those complaints… #1 There’s not enough time. #2 There’s not enough money. Those two illusions are just the symptoms of how they’re using their minds. They INVEST their TIME, which costs them MONEY…… Continue reading Spend 10K for 8 weeks of coaching OR CLOSE YOUR EYES & GET FREE
Coaches & High Level “Helpers” think a “Soul Mate Client” is their “perfect fit,” and that’s what everyone wants, right? True or True? Yes, there are clients who are a perfect fit for you and yes, there are many who are not. But the reasons you might think Soul Clients are “perfect” may be a little…… Continue reading The Truth About Soul Mate Clients
There’s a lot of talk about authenticity in the “expert industry,” and yet businesses are starting to sound and look like they’ve come straight off assembly lines. Same components, same words, same old programs… And you know what, there’s nothing wrong with that… until there is… Imitation makes us feel safe. Most of us were…… Continue reading I WAS A BIG FAT IMITATOR
How’d I get my very first clients you ask? Here’s the 411. There I was lying in bed the night before and as I fell off to sleep I said to myself as I had been known to say when I wanted guidance… “tonight I will dream and if there is anything significant I will…… Continue reading How I got my very first clients…
Yes I’ve said it and I’ve taught it, that you must get clear on who you want to serve, because knowing what you want helps create a clearer channel to those who are a match… But here’s the thing… all the niche, and client avatar exercises in the world won’t make those people hear you.…… Continue reading What if your true niche was your heart?
She looked at me like it was the dumbest thing she’d ever heard. I was out in California, away from my then boyfriend whom I thought was the “one” (almost 9 years ago now) attending an intensive seminar for my first attempt at procuring a Masters degree in Psychology. My new classmates and I were…… Continue reading Take the pressure off… Take the limits off… [Warning, explicit lyrics]
If you’re anything like the women I attract or talk to every week, you’ve probably invested in mentors and programs and sucked up all the freebies and webinars. You’re probably highly skilled at what you do, and/or have certifications & degrees. And every investment you’ve made so far that didn’t get you the results you…… Continue reading Here’s where finding your “Why” is all wrong…
You hear it all the time… be yourself, be authentic, share your stories, be raw and real, “just show up…” And yes, I’ve absolutely said that myself because that was something I needed to do for myself, but that was just scratching the surface. Problem is even after all of that, you’ll still find…… Continue reading Being “yourself” may be your biggest obstacle